Top 10 Reasons Why Dommes Shouldn’t Date Each Other

Top 10 Reasons Why Dommes Shouldn’t Date Each Other:

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19 thoughts on “Top 10 Reasons Why Dommes Shouldn’t Date Each Other

  1. awesomesub says:

    Hi Ana, what thoughtful and funny lists. Poor Trinity, it seems she cannot please Graciela, how frustrating is that?! Trinity’s number five is actually awesome, because they really discuss what matters and actively work on their relationship (at least Graciela wants that). It takes time, but I love that.
    Trinity’s complaints are cute. She sounds so much like a daughter to Graciela that I am pretty curious about how this will go on.

    Wow, the Graciela version is the responsible adult version of Trinity’s complaints. So, Graciela’s place is always spick and span, according to number one. And I do take her side about the dishwasher. There is a right way! Hubby is the guerrilla dishwasher loader here. So, I do like to take dishes out of his hands and put them into the dishwasher myself. 🙂
    Graciela’s number three is my favourite, because to understand dominating as ‘a service in the betterment of others’ sounds a little mumsy again. She is nurturing and cares for those she is in charge of. I love that in her.

    I think Graciela has some very profound arguments that show so much of her responsibility. But some are only the professional domme point of view and I understand that Trinity objects to these, because she is not submissive to Graciela and understands their relationship primarily as that of equal lovers. This is so tricky, I mean, since they are not a submissive and dominant couple, maybe they should be sort of equal in the relationship. I can see how many problems they must have to face. There are lots of conflicts to clear up between them and you could write so much about these two alone.

    The blurb sounds awesome. I can see Graciela and Trinity grow together or apart. However, Graciela is too tempted and too attracted to Trinity not to give her a serious second chance, I’d say, and Graciela deserves the best! 🙂 Thank you for teasing us with this.

    hugs

    Nina

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    • Anastasia Vitsky says:

      I had so much fun writing these. 😀 In a way I still feel like I’m getting to know both of them, and at the same time they feel like old friends. It’s been such a treat to take a minor character and put her into the center of a new story universe.

      The daughter observation is pretty neat. I hadn’t thought of that, but it probably comes from the power difference. After all, for five years Graciela was responsible for Trinity. She taught Trinity everything and (can’t say details because of spoilers), Trinity wouldn’t still be here without that help.

      You know moms always think they’re right. 😀 Hehe.

      Add in the cheating and how Trinity messed up, and they are not on equal footing–no matter how much Trinity thinks she deserves it. I guess we’ll have to see if she ever earns that, or if it’s not going to happen. I think she has some growing up to do first, don’t you?

      Hugs.

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  2. Sophie Kisker says:

    They remind me of two storms that blow up – one over the Pacific that heads east, and one over the Gulf of Mexico that heads north – and when those of us in the US Midwest see them headed for a collision we hide in our basements! 😉 Can’t wait for the story!

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  3. Lynn says:

    LOL!

    Oh dear, Trinity you’re coming across as a whiny brat, not a domme.

    But I do think she’s got a point on number 8. Seriously, ladies! You’re bickering about how to load the dishwasher?

    Personally, I’m just pleased if someone else does load it. The kids seem to think that it will magically load itself if they leave the stuff on the worktop 😦

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  4. Renee says:

    Love these lists. I can say from experience there is absolutely no right way to load the dishwasher. Don’t tell hubby or oldest son I said that, because they have determined the best scientific or is that mathematical way to load said dishwasher for the greatest efficiency. It is an ongoing uhhmm discussion in my house. I am just grateful they load it most of the time.

    Trinity does come across sounding a little childish but Graciela comes across a little inflexible too. I get what you are saying about the unbalance in the relationship but Graciela did open her home and does need to look at all that is going on in Trinity’s life. Not saying Trinity doesn’t need a lot of corner time and a few spankings.

    Looking forward to Love Spanks. Cannot wait for the rest of the story to be available. Blessings. R

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    • Anastasia Vitsky says:

      Did you know you can actually download diagrams for each type of dishwasher? :-O Though I bet Graciela hasn’t done that. She simply KNOWS. Hehe.

      Yup! The entire conflict of their relationship is right here, and to be honest even if I were in the wrong (like Trinity) I’m not sure I’d appreciate always being reminded of that. Then again, I’m not sure how much I’d appreciate someone coming to live with me and complaining about it. I’ve been down that route!

      Hugs. And spanks. 😀

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  5. catrouble says:

    Oh my…can’t wait to read Trinity and Graciela’s story! I know…patience…*sigh* Oh and yes Trinity…there is a right way to load a dishwasher! 😀

    Hugs and Blessings…
    Cat

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  6. Roz Harrison says:

    Love it Ana! Don’t get me started on loading dishwashers! LoL I don’t even have one at home, yet I can load the one at work, unlike many of my colleagues. Drives me nuts lol

    Hugs
    Roz

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  7. Julie says:

    Fun lists, Ana! You’ve captured – and in their own words 🙂 – the absolute, true essence of dommes.

    They really *are* all just that whiny, aren’t they?

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